Ching Jenny

M.A.D.

2010-06-28T13:00:00.001+08:00

One song can spark a moment
One flower can wake the dream
One tree can start a forest
One bird can herald spring

One smile begins a friendship
One handclap lift a soul
One star can guide a ship at sea
One word can frame the goal

One vote can change a nation
One sunbeam lights a room
One candle wipe out darkness
One laugh will conquer gloom

One step must start each journey
One word must start each prayer
One hope will raise our spirits
One touch can show you care

One voice can speak with wisdom
One heart can know what's true
One person can make the difference
We are the one who can M.A.D.

徒刑,了结,再死一次?

2009-06-19T13:15:00.000+08:00

徒刑,了结,再死一次?

等待考试的心情和
等待行刑的心情是一样的
期待快点了结
期待徒刑后的解脱

重考是最痛苦的事.....
试问有谁愿再死一次?

It's Final Exam! Again!

2009-06-07T15:40:00.000+08:00

It's Final Exam!

Again!

Cannot enjoy my favourite TV show everynite....

Cannot Sleep Well.....

No appetite to eat....

Study till i drop....

Why do i have to go through all these?

Because,

I ASK FOR IT!

Zzz....

I'm dreaming of my Final Exam Papers now....

Sky or Sea?

2009-05-17T09:39:00.001+08:00

"Sky or Sea"

Where is the end of the sky and where is end of the sea?

Where is the end of the stress and tense?

Stress and tense will only go away after all the task has been accomplished.

So i'm learning how to be tolarent with the stress.

****

When you really need a break, take one.

Go soak in sea water....

Leave your food steps on the sandy beaches.....

or even just relax yourself in the swimming pool.

You will feel the different.

****

"Chili Crab"
Or indulge yourself will good food.
Spicy food my favorite.

****

"Round The World"

If not can try to have a sip or two ....

****

To be relax or tense?

You decide that.

Tired...

2009-05-07T18:31:00.000+08:00

Hmm.....

Sinking....

Work, Studies, Presentation, Test, Assignment.

One after another...

Need a good sleep...

笑死人的12星座宝

2009-04-03T08:24:00.000+08:00

笑死人的12星座宝

白羊座

妈妈经常叮嘱羊羊："穿裙子时不可以荡秋千；不然，会被小男生看到里面的小内裤哦！"

有一天，羊羊高兴地对妈妈说："今天我和小明比赛荡秋千，我赢了！"

妈妈生气地说："不是告诉过你吗？穿裙子时不要荡秋千！"

羊羊骄傲地说："可是我好聪明哦！我把里面的小内裤脱掉了，这样他就看不到我的小内裤了！"

(勇敢直率、敢做敢为的白羊）

金牛座

卖瓜小贩："快来吃西瓜，不甜不要钱！"

饥渴的牛牛："哇！太好了，老板，来个不甜的！"

(持家、想出轨又顾全自己的金牛）

双子座

妈妈叫双双起床："快点起来！公鸡都叫好几遍了！"

双双说："公鸡叫和我有什么关系？我又不是母鸡！"

(自我意识强烈、自行思维的双子）

巨蟹座

公车上，蟹蟹说："今晚我要和妈妈睡！"

妈妈问道："你将来娶了媳妇也和妈妈睡阿？"

蟹蟹不假思索："嗯！"

妈妈又问："那你媳妇怎么办？"

蟹蟹想了半天，说："好办，让她跟爸爸睡！"

妈妈："！＠＃＄％︿＆＊（……—"

再看爸爸，已经热泪盈眶啦！

(恋母情结、依恋的巨蟹）

狮子座

狮狮去参加奶奶的寿宴。到了吃寿包的时候，狮狮问："我们为什么要吃这种像屁股的寿包？"

众人听了脸色大变。

接著狮狮拨开寿包，看看里面的豆沙，说："奶奶，快看！里面还有大便！"

众人晕的晕，吐的吐.

(以自我感受、不怕旁人眼光的骄傲的狮子)

处女座

处处对肚脐很好奇，就问爸爸。

爸爸把脐带连著胎儿与母体的道理简单地讲了一下，

说："婴儿离开母体之后，医生把脐带减断，并打了一个结，後来就成了肚脐。"

处处："那医生为什么不打个蝴蝶结？"

(好奇心强又追求完美的处女）

天秤座

父亲对天天说："今天不要上学了，昨晚．．．你妈给你生了两个弟弟。

你给老师说一下就行了。"

天天却回答："爸爸，我只说生了一个；另一个，我想留著下星期不想上时再说！"

(聪明、权衡利弊的天平）

天蠍座

蠍蠍刚睡著，就叫蚊子叮了一口。

他起来赶蚊子，却怎么也赶不出去。

没法，便指著蚊子说："好吧，你不出去我出去！"

边说边出了房间，把门使劲关严得意地说：

"哼！我今晚不进屋，非把你饿死不可！"

(搞不懂、不按常理出牌的天蝎）

射手座

射射："爸爸，为什么你有那么多白头发？"

爸爸："因为你不乖，所以爸爸有好多白头发阿。"

射射：……（疑惑中）> > 射射："那为什么爷爷全部都是白头发？"

爸爸：！＠＃＄％︿＆＊（…… > >

(喜欢思考的射手)

摩羯座.

一天，羯羯跟妈妈上街；走在路上，突然下起雨来。

妈妈拉过羯羯的小手，说："下雨了，快往前跑阿！"

羯羯慢条斯理地问："那前面就不下雨喽！？"

(明白现实懒得改变的摩羯）

水瓶座

瓶瓶问妈妈："问什么称蒋先生为『先人』？"

妈妈说："因为'先人'是对死去的人的称呼。"

瓶瓶说："那去世的奶奶是不是要叫『鲜奶』？"

(天生的另类、脑筋思考永远和常人不一样的水瓶)

双鱼座

爸爸给鱼鱼讲小时候经常挨饿的事。

听完後，鱼鱼两眼含泪，十分同情地问：

"哦，爸爸，你是因为没饭吃才来我们家的吗？"

(富含丰富同情心、不分情况对象的双鱼）

Life

2009-03-20T18:21:00.000+08:00

What life means to you?

~No Life ~

this is the word that i often heard from friends who tie up with commitments.

What is commitment?

Personal commitment mean interaction dominated by obligations.

These obligations may be mutual, or self-imposed, or explicitly stated, or may not.

Distinction is often made between commitment as a member of an organisation

(such as a sporting team, a religion, or as an employee).

A personal commitment is a pledge or promise to ones' self for personal growth.

A commitment is just one of your choice.

No one can force you unless you allowed yourself to do so.

What is Life then?

life,

although there is no universal agreement as to a definition of life,

its biological manifestations are generally considered to be organization, metabolism, growth, irritability, adaptation, and reproduction.

Protozoa perform, in a single cell, the same life functions as those carried on by the complex tissues and organs of humans and other highly developed organisms.

The attributes of life are inherent in such minute structures as viruses, bacteria, and genes, just as they are in the whale and the giant sequoia.

It's amazing.

***************

life is fragile.

Handle it with care.

Don't say no life as you already got one in your hand.

You have the choice on how you want your life to be.

I know, word is always easier than action.

L=Live

I= In

F= Faith

E= Everyday

*******

A mum has just give birth to a baby boy.

Mummy, congratulation.

Baby, welcome to the world.

^_^

My 1st Graduation

2009-03-11T12:50:00.001+08:00

****

I like to day dream some time.

Imagine myself standing on the stage with the square hat on my head.

Kind of too early for me to think of that at the moment.

Still a long way to go.

****

But i had my first graduation.

Back to 1985.

^_^

Spot the Same old Ching Jenny.

*****

要开学了!

2009-02-22T11:02:00.000+08:00

噢！

要开学了。
进入第四个学期。
还好兴奋，其待，紧张，害怕的心情都还在!

不是应该这样吗？
人嘛，总该有点情绪，不能像个机器人，什么感觉都没有。
但忙起来的时候还真希望自己是个机器人，暂时忘了自己有多累，
暂时忘了有多么的需要个肩膀来依靠。

唔！

是酱的咯！
自作自受咯，自己做的选择，自己要负责任咯。
嘻嘻！

嗯！

新的一年就有着新的开始。
进入新学期啦，刚上任新职位啦，办公室也搬迁到新的地点，
风景还蛮不错哦！

每一天都希望事事顺利，每个学期末都期待努力的结果，
每一年都祈祷自己别太快变老。。哇哈哈！
因为除了吃喝拉撒，还有好多好多好多好多的事等着我去做。。。

所以嘞更要好好爱惜自己
因为唯有健康的自己才有能力去照顾亲爱的家人和朋友。

Chocolate

2009-02-12T18:13:00.000+08:00

Ate a piece of chocolate.

The wrapper comes with a message :-

Lámor n'est pas ce qui fait tourner le monde.

or in English it means

Love doesnt make the world go round.

Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.

Ohhh... So sweeeeet.. (I mean the chocolate)

And i love you so... (I mean the chocolate too...)

Happy Valentine's Day!

Love is in the air

2009-02-08T10:35:00.000+08:00

Love is not that complicated.

Human beings make it complicated.

****

A couple will be getting married on 14th Feb 2009.

May All Good Things Be Yours

Your happiness begins with your wonderful wedding day.

You’ll share everything together;

Through it all, your love will stay.

Congratulations to you,As you begin your happy life.

May all good things be yours

As new husband and new wife

A toast to Sia & Vian!

Happy Niu Yeah!!

2009-01-20T19:22:00.000+08:00

ChingJenny wishing you all Happy 牛 Year!

* GONG XI FA CHAI*

哎唷唷

2009-01-11T14:04:00.000+08:00

雨一直下。。。
哎哟！宝贝猫咪都蓬的像毛球了。
冷冷哦。。

快过年了！
不需等待牛年的到来我已经忙的象头牛了！
年终结帐，查帐。。
忙。。。茫。。。盲。。。

Happy Birthday My Darling

2008-12-31T13:36:00.000+08:00

I was having

For my year 2008 Birthday

The lovely people are .......

Thank you for the lovely gift.

It's a simple but Wonderful Birthday celebration for me

cause i have your help, support, love and care in my life ...

ChingJenny : To all my friends,

i love you all..

I dont have to mention your name one by one

and you know who you are...

*Happy Birthday ChingJenny!*

Arts of Asia

2008-12-24T12:22:00.000+08:00

Went to Arts of Asia last sunday.

Here are some of the local products available at AOA....

I like this couple.....

An Antique

More Antique

WoodCraft

Wooden Vase

NICOLE^_^

Proudly present you the "first product" of the shop owner.... Hee Hee

A lovely, clever and sweet young lady

http://sweetsss.blogdrive.com/

This is Nicole's Art Work! Cool! The earrings with the most Xmas feel...

ChingJenny only good in eating... to do handicraft?

Ah, Forget about it!

Another product of Nicole... This one full with CNY feel...

More and more products of Nicole... WoW !

If you wonder where Arts of Asia is ........

TADA!!

The shop is just facing Kuching Waterfront.

Not far from Star Cineplex.

Sorry eh, ChingJenny is not very good in describing the location,

but CJ can bring you there.....

Last but not the least

~*Merry X Mas*~

A story to share

2008-12-18T12:16:00.000+08:00

One night a man had a dream.

He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes of his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand. One belongs to him and the other to the Lord. When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand.

He noticed that many times during the path of his life, there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the lowest and the saddest times of his life. This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it.

“Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you, you’d walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don’t understand why when I needed you most, you would leave me.”

The Lord replied. “My son, my precious child. I love you and would never leave you. During your times of trials and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you.”

~Have faith in love~

《心情杂记2》

2008-12-05T12:51:00.000+08:00

考完试咯！
心情松了！
身材也垮了！
好久没去健身房
挥一挥手臂的拜拜袖就可以带我起飞了

这次考得不怎么理想
朋友安慰我说别太失望
就因为还有明天

还有明天。。。
对积极的人来说，有明天就有希望
对消极的人来说，还有明天要挨呢
就看个人怎么想和去面对吧

不管明天会是怎么样
该先珍惜生命中的每一天
珍惜现在所拥有的一切
因为我们永远不会知道下一秒我们将得到或失去什么

除了珍惜或许还要学会放的开。。。

把手放开不问一句‘say good bye’
当作最后一次的溺爱
曹格的歌

歌词要有多悲伤就有多悲伤
人生也可是可以如此
但我都选择了PH5
不酸也不苦
为了保护自己
我选择了对自己残忍。。。

《心情杂记1》

2008-12-05T12:50:00.000+08:00

看回多年前写的日记
原来为自己写下了好多的故事

逃避不一定躲得过
面对也不一定最难受
学会面对问题
当问题解决
那一切烦恼就不是问题了

日记本所记载的都是成长过程
纪录着昨天的错误
今天的发生
明天的未来

怎能记录明天的未来？
就把心中的期待和愿望写下来
那就是我要的明天了

告诉自己。。。

累了，请降心靠岸
错了，请不要后悔
苦了，才懂得满足
伤了，才明白坚强
胖了嘛，是时候减肥咯！

茶有人生的滋味
酒有心情的体会
咖啡呢？
不喝就会睡
ZZzzz。。。。

First Entry in Bahasa Cina..

2008-11-12T17:23:00.001+08:00

能够当个全职的学生是件很开心的事。
就因为要应付考试，所以休假一星期来温书。
好想把资料都塞进脑子里
就如储存档案那样快和方便
不过没那么容易。。。

Book! Book!

2008-11-07T08:45:00.000+08:00

So Happy!

Found 3 books that i'm interested in.

Weee...

Tittle : Who Says Elephants Can’t Dance?

Author: Louis V. Gerstner, Jr
Call No. : 004.068/ GER
ISBN: 9780007170876
Publisher: Harper Collins

Tittle : Ethics, Discovering Right And Wrong

Authors: Louis P. Pojman, James Fieser
Call No.: 170/ POJ
ISBN: 9780495502357
Publisher: Cengage

Tittle : Unleash Your Potential And Take Charge Of Your Life

Author: V. Mohan
Call No.: 151.1/ MOH
ISBN: 9789679788365
Publisher: Pelanduk

But but but...got time to read or not??

Got! For the books that i want to read, sure got time to read...

Hee hee hee...

Cheerleader

2008-11-04T19:14:00.000+08:00

(Cheers!!!!!!!!!)

Give me a C…
Give me a J…..
Who Am I?
Ching Jenny!
(Not CJ7 eh)

Be FOCUS my dear ChingJenny.
Remember, this is your show! You are the cheer leader!
You lift yourself up when you down, you know the way and you will find the way…

Up Up UP!

You Go Girl!!!!
Focus! Focus! Focus!
Exam! Exam! Exam!
Jia You! Jia You! JIA YOU!!!

Sharing..

2008-10-25T13:26:00.000+08:00

Share

(Oxford:a part given to one person out of something divided among several)

How do you find about sharing?

Do you know that you can share your hapiness with your friends and family?

Do you know that by sharing the joys with others, the happiness will double up?

Do you know how it feel when people share their happiness with you?

Do you know how it feeling when friends and family are smilling happily?

:0) ChingJenny know.....

Buzzzzzzzzz.....

2008-10-21T13:30:00.001+08:00

Busy.....

Damn Busy...

Not as a busy body, but busy with my own life....

Shouldnt i be glad to be able to be busy with my own life...

Buzzzzzzz.............

Depression

2008-10-15T08:03:00.000+08:00

*Depression*

Depression is a common, serious and treatable disorder.

Two core features are Low Mood and a Lack of Pleasure from pleasurable activities.
Common symptom among Malaysian is tiredness and lethargy. The worst consequence of depression is suicide. People with serious illness are more prone to develop depression. On the other hand, people with depression will more likely to develop physical illness. Common illnesses In this case are Heart Disease, Stroke, Cancer and Parkinson’s disease.

Depression is treatable. Minor depression can be treated with help of antidepressants and psychological treatments. Severe depression (especially associated with suicidal) may go through a treatment called Electro-Convulsive therapy or ECT.

The most effective psychological treatment is called Cognitive Therapy. It helps the patients to understand what is happening to them and then to react better in a critical situation. It focuses on changing negative and destructive thought to more positive and it include problem solving and building self-worth.

ChingJenny: Having a positive thought is essential; especially we are living in this stressful world. We got to know how to solve the problem ourselves or with help. It’s ok when people look down on us due to our weakness but it’s the worst when we also agreed that we are worthless….(Eh,I mean worthless not Priceless oh!). It’s good we understand that why we are SAD and know how to react in the first place, hence the level of sadness won’t increase and become depression. Knowing the caused and consequence will help us live a better life, cause we always know, a beneficial action will bring us to a beneficial consequence.

*Helping ourselves*

Proper diet – limit intake of sweets, fats, alcohol, fried food. Eat plenty of fresh fruits and vegetable, drinks H2O, reduce salt intake.

ChingJenny: Oppss… currently my food intake is totally the other way round.

Exercise – It help release endorphins and it relieve tiredness or fatigue.

ChingJenny: I miss the Gym!!!!!!!!!
ChingJenny:Trust me, when you say you are tired and exercise will make you feel more tired, you are wrong!

Talking to others –need to know that there is someone you can talk to, openly and honestly.

ChingJenny:I never see “San Ku, Liu Poh” got depressed .They always express themselves freely regardless you like it or not. But not too much gossips... End up sore throat! If the honestly is an issue, you can try to talk to your pet, but respond is not guarantee.

Sleep Hygiene – Have enough sleep and have a comfortable sleep environment.

ChingJenny: If you are having sleepless night now, probably you are just thinking too much on why you can’t fall asleep yet. Don’t waste your time, just go to sleep..zZzZzz.....sweet dream my friends…..

http://www.my.depnet.com

World Mental Health Day 2008

2008-10-11T11:14:00.000+08:00

Went to Spring for lunch yesterday.

An exhibition to create public awareness of Mental Illness is going on in Spring in conjuction of World Mental Health Day 2008 (10 October).

Free copies of handbook on Depression is given out to the public at the exhibition booth.

The handbook is written by Dr Philip George from IMU Msia, tittle : Depression is an illness.

We have to admit that Depression is a very common illness in the society now adays and it is as serious as cancer, but Depression is not a weakness. Depression is treatable! Life cases shown that patient who recover from Depression can resumed to their normal life, in fact, they will be able to cope with the sress more effectively than before.

Ching Jenny: It's okay that you fall down, but dont just sit on there and start complaining about the life is so unfair.Yes, Life is unfair, but we have the ability to balance it up. It's okay we are slow, just as long as we move on , we will reach our destiny.

The theme of this year's World Mental Health Day is "Mental health in a changing world: the impact of culture and diversity."

We live in a culturally interconnected world where one person in every 35 is an international migrant. Dramatically different languages, religions and cultures coexist in a single country. This cultural diversity may influence many aspects of mental health, including how individuals from a given culture communicate and manifest their symptoms, their style of coping, their family and community supports, and their willingness to seek treatment.

In the mental health care setting, culture impacts how people:
- label and communicate distress;
- explain the causes of mental health problems;
- perceive mental health providers; and
- utilize and respond to mental health treatment.

The 2007 World Mental Health Day campaign, an initiative of the World Federation for Mental Health, will bring attention to trans-cultural mental health services and treatment.

http://www.who.int/mediacentre/events/2007/world_mental_health_day/en/index.html

My Experience

2008-10-11T09:23:00.000+08:00

1st time in my life
I stood in front of 100 over people
To give speech in English
And to run a show as the EmCee
Gees, i ask myself, from where i got the courage?
The Director of the show really have faith in me as the are really brave to allowed me to run their show last nite.

My life is my show.
I'm the emcee, i'm the actress, i'm the director, i'm the technician .....
I have the right to speak for myself, i have to be responssible for my act, i have to plan ahead, i have to control my emotion, raise myself up when i'm down......

The show last nite ends up in cheers and claps.

It's okay if i dont get cheers and claps when it comes to the end my show, caused i know i did my best with no regret - some more, cant cry over spilt milk.....

Kung Zi Yue...

2008-09-26T16:55:00.000+08:00

Today is birthday of Confucius.

*Happy Birthday*

Cc's Sifu...

Women make better leaders?

2008-09-21T14:04:00.000+08:00

Just points of view……

“Women wanted the top jobs; then they got them;”

Women will always think they are the same as men. Women wanted the top jobs too. If men can be CEO, why can't women? Women could be just as tough, just as ruthless, just as cold-hearted, and just focused on what they want to achieve, hence women will get what they really want.

“then Women didn’t want them anymore.”

No matter how tough, how ruthless, how cold-hearted women are, women will be tired one day. It is women nature to be soft (not hard as others are, quiet and gentle) and sensitive (showing intelligent awareness). Don’t be too surprise when women say “I don’t want them anymore”.

“Women were valued because they were genetically or socially engineered to be successful leaders in the economy”.

Here, I would define “genetically” as sensitive (showing intelligent awareness).
Thanks to revolutions century ago, women have chance to be educated, be active in the industry that they want.

“Women were now equal to men but different”
“Men had been beaten up by women for thinking they were different”

Men use to be opposite of women – known as tough, cold-hearted, “no tears”mind-set, but now men know that hard skills were not really that important when it come to leadership. Men start to understand the intrinsic value of Women in leadership. Men start practicing how to hug and cry, and sharing their feelings in group therapy.
Computer needs hardware and software to be function, leaders should also have the ability to practice their skills in“hard”way and “soft”way at the same time.

This reminds me of a song called “My Ways” . “My Ways” mind set is obsolete for leader. Leader cannot be leader without followers, hence leader need to do things “Our way”.

“Men had to change”

Here, I would define “men” as human beings. Human beings have to change from time to time. To be more specific, human beings needs self-improvement as time goes by. World is changing, moving forwards, and if the person refuse to change, he/she will be left behind.

“Emotions are powerful, then can bolster a sense of mission, bond teams together, and they can also get in the way of what need to be done and who needs to do it.”

I guess most of the employees have this in mind -“I’m overwork and underpaid” and the leader will always the followers to have the sense of responsible for own duty and alert for others duties as they are sailing on the same ship.

“Men and women could learn a lot from each other about leadership.”
We not only learn from experience, we also learn from each other.

“We all have different tools in different balance”
Hence we need to compensate the weakness by keep up our strength.

“We will never know are men better at leadership in practice or women having better leadership attributes in theory”
“All leaders, prospective leaders and followers – men and women- need to understand the true nature of leadership.”

It doesn’t matter our leader is a he or a she, all we want is a good leader and all the leader want is a good follower.

How you difine “good”?? Its up to individual.

Book

2008-09-13T11:31:00.000+08:00

Found this new title on the library's book shelf this morning.

Had a glance.

Hmm.. interesting...

*Intro*

The Taboos of Leadership breaks the silence on the secrets that leaders can’t address publicly for fear of losing power, self-respect, or their jobs because they run counter to everything we’re taught these days about good leadership.

This book deals head-on with the truth about such forbidden concepts as:

*Contents*
1. The Pull of Charisma (Yes, it matters.)
2. Nepotism and Favoritism (Sorry, it makes sense sometimes.)
3. Blatant Self-Interest (As long as it’s good for the company.)
4.The Double Standard of Executive Pay (And why they deserve the huge pay packages.)
5.Avoiding Succession Planning and/or Refusing to Give-up the Reins (Wouldn’t you?)
6.Why Women Make Better Leaders Than Men (When they’re willing to do what it takes.)

What caught ChingJenny's eyes is this content :-

"Why Women Make Bettere Leaders Than Men(When they're willing to do what it takes)".

If you are as curious as I am, go check out the book now.

Do visit the link below to find out more about the author and the book.

http://www.taboosofleadership.com/index.htm

Paralympic

2008-09-11T12:30:00.000+08:00

Paralympic Games Beijing 2008

I saw the Official Opening - telebroadcasted through Satelite

Through out my whole life, i never seen such a touching opening ceremony.

Tears on cheeks since the beginning till the end.

Pretty ladies doing artistic performance...

(the performers are all dump and deaf)

They performed so well, just like normal people.

If the organiser did not mention during the opening,

I wont know they are handicapped.

To : Ching Jenny,

If the handicapped people can life their life so well like normal people,

Why cant normal people like you stop complaining about your normal life

and steadily progress to the destiny that you want?

~Just Do It~

http://en.paralympic.beijing2008.cn/index.shtml

Meow

2008-09-08T08:39:00.000+08:00

Went to visit my cousins yesterday.

They all participate in the beauty contest.

Cousin 1 : "Hmm.... The judge say i'm over weight"

Ching Jenny : "Dont worry, i'm over weight too..."

Cousin 2 : "They say i need to sleep more...""

Ching Jenny :"Ya, same goes to me too..."

Cousin 3 : "I'm Cold & Tired"

Ching Jenny : "Me tooo ..."

Cousin 4 : " A bit stress up here...."

Ching Jenny : "Dont worry dear, you have done your best".

Cousin 5 : "Dont disturb me...ZZZZzzz"

Ching Jenny : "....."

Cousin 6 :"Please dont take my pic with flash on..."

Ching Jenny : "Okay"

Cousin 7 : "Eh Kek Piak Eh, you know who win the competition ?"

Cousin 8 :"Bey Zai Boh...Ah Boi Announce Kok Leh...."

Cousin 1 in action.

***********************************************************************

Reach home,

i tell Baby :

"B, Ko Si Lu Siang Ho Ma...

Ai Ciak Du Ciak, Ai Kun Du Kun,

Anytime, Anywhere you like..."

~*An this is BB's art work* ~

Team Work

2008-08-30T14:14:00.000+08:00

Teamwork skills

*Listening*
it is important to listen to other people's ideas. When people are allowed to freely express their ideas, these initial ideas will produce other ideas.

*Discussing*
it is important to discuss your ideas with your teammates until you agree.

*Questioning*
it is important to ask questions, interact, and discuss the objectives of the team.

*Persuading*
individuals are encouraged to exchange, defend, and then to ultimately rethink their ideas.

*Respecting*
it is important to treat others with respect and to support their ideas.

*Helping*
it is crucial to help one's coworkers, which is the general theme of teamwork.

*Sharing*
it is important to share with the team to create an environment of teamwork.

*Participating*
all members of the team are encouraged to participate in the team.
(usually consist of three or more people)

*Communicating*
For a team to work effectively it is essential team members acquire communication skills and use effective communication channels between one another e.g. using email, viral communication, group meetings and so on.
This will enable team members of the group to work together and achieve the team's purpose and goals.

*ChingJenny*
I like the picture and the words.

Ai Si Pey Pey Si, Ai Wak Pey Pey Wak (Hokkian Version)

Some people might not know how important the team work is in your own department or even int the company.

As colleague are sailing on the same ship , it is BEST if we can practise the team work.

You scratch my back , i scratch your back mah

both on win win situation

Hoops & Yoyo

2008-08-16T11:18:00.000+08:00

You know what,

When ever I feel lonely or too quiet in my life,

i will just click on to http://www.hoopsandyoyo.com

You will get lots of fun from it...

Life shouldn't be just only work work work....

Have some fun even though you are stuck in your small cubicle..

SO SICK!

2008-08-12T13:14:00.000+08:00

I think we are all VERY SICK!
Work from Morning till Night.
Work from Monday to Sunday.
Even my Boss who is currently sick yet still working hard in her office.
I told her"Boss, Health is the most important"
She said "I know, but I have the deadline to meet..."

then she continue to work...
No matter how tired we are,

how sick we are,

due to our commitment to the DEADLINE,
we continue to work....
SIGH!!!!!!!
To the workaholic, WE are SO SICK!

And sorry to say NO CURE for US!

Or should i say,

able to meet the deadline is the only cure...

See what i've learn today

2008-08-07T19:17:00.001+08:00

Just came back from my Moral class.

Let's see what i have learn for today...

Socrates - The founder of Philosophy..

Plato was a Classical Greek philosopher, who, together with his mentor, Socrates, and his student, Aristotle, helped to lay the foundations of Western philosophy.

Suddenly the lecturer pop up with a question "who is more handsome, Socrates or Plato?"

Then, she give an answer "No absolute answer for the question as it's like beauty in the eyes of beholders."

"Cool!" says ChingJenny.

What is Philosophy?

It is the study of general and fundamental problems concerning matters such as existence, knowledge, truth, justice, beauty, validity, mind and language.

Why study philosophy?

It's actually a rational argument on how you understand the theory and how you apply / practise.

Theoretical & applied Ethics.

Is euthanasia morality?

If you see your beloved pet suffering from illness, no hope but waiting for the time to end,

will you ask the vet to put them to sleep forever?

Or you rather see them suffer, but staying with them untill their last breath??

Are moral principle absolute?

No!

Things change, human change, the world is changing...

Even law have to change according to social changes.

How to judge a person is morality or immorality?

We have difference perspective as us homo sapiens are unique.

No one is the same.

Ok. That is what ChingJenny have learn for today.

My philosophy now is

"When you are hungry, you must eat"

"When you are tired, you must rest"

So, i'm going home to eat & rest.

Some words to share

2008-08-07T09:45:00.000+08:00

For ChingJenny …

“I am only one, but I am one.
I cannot do everything, but I can do something.
And what I can do, that I ought to do.
And what I ought to do, I shall do.”

- Edward Everett Hale

For my team member…..

“If we can put a man on the moon,
You can see your way through to where you want to be.
There is a way.
There is always a way.
- Alin Austin

For my department….

“I decided to do more of what I wanted to do,
Stopped doing many things I didn’t want to do,
And gave up worrying about those things I had no control over.”

- Anonymous

Smiles

2008-08-04T18:08:00.000+08:00

I started my new semester this week.

I’m taking 3 subjects this semester.
One core paper is about Law.

Another compulsory paper is Moral Education.
These two papers will lead me to lots of argument and it’s teasing my brain;

especially I have to present my assignment/pass my exam using my “half tank water” (Pua Tang Jui) English. I guess this semester I will need help from CC with the moral assignment as CC is very good in his Confusing Theory.

CC, I know I can count on you.

I’m having a quite challenging life now, actually it already started a day after I decided to further my studies while working. So I got to know how to balance it, how to juggle between work and studies. Not only work and studies, my health, my family, my pets – My Life got to be Balance.It’s like double entries in accounting, a transaction got to have a Debit in an account and a Credit in another account.

Most of my colleges are drowning by their work load. DAMN BUSY is the only word to describe as they all have deadlines to meet, but this word only applicable to those who are busy doing the right things. Thanks to the DEADLINE, the busy doing the right things people work until Bin Oh Oh…Losing their smiles…That’s why I feel like posting smiley faces in this blog, at least when you can’t find it from ChingJenny’s face, you will still able to read it from ChingJenny’s blog. Guess we all trying our best to put on a smiley face everyday, even to a strangers. The great thing is, most of the time, the stranger will smile back at you too. I’m saying most of the time here, not all the time!

Recently a friend of mine ask me, “Why do you blog??”.
My answer is “Basically it is for me to practice my English writting, Blog is like a diary, having my own “Space” for me to express myself. No offense..
How about you?

Smile

2008-07-23T08:46:00.001+08:00

Some time when you are speechless

Smile might be the right solution

Outdoor Photo Shot

2008-07-15T13:18:00.000+08:00

Went outdoor photo shot.

Emm.. This time look more natural.

But of cause, touch up is essential.....

(Before - Bin Pao Pao)

(After-Bin Yi Yi)

TADA!

Hungry....

2008-07-02T17:56:00.000+08:00

I'm so damn hungry now

Want to eat but stuck with office work.

Sorry tummy, i can only feed you "Vico" at the moment.

I'm dreaming of this...

And this......

And this.....

And many many more....

-_-

.......Sigh.........

Better quick quick finish my work first lar....

Retreat

2008-06-30T18:16:00.000+08:00

We went to Union Yes Retreat and Training Centre on saturday.

http://www.sbeu.org.my/

They have Swimming pool.

They have obstacles for us to test our team building and leadership skills.

They serve nice food at Cafe Rafflesia.
Their most popular dishes are "Sweat" corn soup and "Sweat" N Sour Prawn.

Nice sandy beach and clear blue sea..

My very first "Break" after the exam.. Yee Pee....

I'm away from home and office....

A trip is not fun without good companions.

Our target for next trip - Phuket Islands.

Of cause, my trip is not complete without good food.
Once again, i pamper myselfwith my favorite dish - Crab..

Kung Fu Panda

2008-06-21T10:38:00.001+08:00

KUNG FU, anyone?

Flying Kick.. Cool

I like this one.

It mean, size doesn't matter.

You may be small but you have the POWER.

Yo! Let's go watch Kung Fu PANDA.

Threaten

2008-06-15T10:47:00.001+08:00

I received an sms on the night i finished my exam...

Oh... It's from a very very SINCERE and RELIABLE friend - CC,

who is currently baby sitting my Momo.

Okay, he start to blog. But as a parasite, he tumpang at nicksuneo's blog http://www.nicksuneo.blogspot.com/while nick is having his HACCP exam.

Then he mentioned about my MOMO. (Marimo).http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marimo
Well, I'm not the first owner of the Marimo.

It's actually belongs to my lovely ex-colleague JenFur.

She gave it to me on the day she left the company.
"Take good care of my Momo har!! If any one bully him, let me know. "

CC insist me to read the blog ASAP..

I scratch my head, why so Kin Tio?

Then he mentioned about can't tanggung concerning Marimo's life... Hurhhh! OMG!

Momo kena culik.....

To get back the Marimo, Cc mention this :

"Jenny, since the task is not easy,

I would like to demand a return of RM5.00 per day

(plus 15% service charge & government tax) for the babysitting service."

Sob Sob Sob...Kena Ugut!
Dahlah minyak naik 40%,

dahlah saya baru habis stress dengan ujian,

dahlah saya tengah stress dengan kerja,

dahlah saya tiga hari tak makan..... nasi ....lemak.....

Kesianlah saya CC....
Wah wah wah.....

Srrrppppp(Lap hingus...)

If Cc still don't kesian me, guess this is the solution:-

Give me back my Momo!!

Or else i'll turn your Draco into Arowana Masin!!!
Sure Sedap with Nasi Putih... Nyek nyek nyek

Photo Shooting

2008-06-14T13:45:00.000+08:00

These photos was taken on 14 Feb 2008.

But i only manage to collect the CD from the bridal studio today.

Don't look like the real ChingJenny hor?

Of cause, all the photoshop and touch up make ChingJenny look better.

No dark eyes circles or HUGE eyes bags...

Hmm.. Let see ...

I like this, casual wear - more natural looking....

This one look like wedding photo, old lady...

How to say this one... this look like Ai Chio Mai Chio eh Bin (Smile yet dont smiling) or another phrase - Pi Siao Lian Bu Siao (Skin smile face didnt smile)

TADA.... I like this one. At lease my face look "Balance"- eyes not one big one small.

It's a good experience.

It was fun, but tiring.

It took me 6 hours to go through the make over and shooting.

Hey, may be when i'm old later, guess i can show these pictures to my cucu cicit and tell them, actually your Ah Mah 's face isn't this kedut while she was young...

Good News and Bad News

2008-06-12T17:47:00.000+08:00

The good news - the exam is over.

The bad news - tonnes of work to be done over this weekend.

So, I will still look like a panda...

A friend forward me this message:-

Stress and desserts

-Stressed is just desserts if you can reverse.

True also... :)

PES (Pre Exam Sympton)

2008-06-04T14:12:00.000+08:00

Most of us are enjoying the long Gawai break now.

It would only be perfect if I don’t have to prepare for my final exam which falls on the following week. Sigh…

I’m trying my best doing revision for 30 over chapters from 3 different subjects within a week.

Can finish or not? I really don’t know.

May be I have to follow the words I told CC the day before
“if you think you can, you can”
or the old Jewish proverb
“When you must, you can”.

I once saw a car sticker with the word “PUSH”-Pray Until Something Happens. Well, when you are really out of idea, may be you can try to PUSH. But for the exam, I really have to PUSH myself to study “HARD” & “HEART” caused I’m not a book smart person. Wish me luck!

Thanks to the holidays, I can spend time with family and enjoy mum’s cooking at home.

Mum cooks “Chicken Bak Zhang” yesterday.
It’s simple but it taste so good.
Mum’s cooking is always the best. Love you Mum!

Guess I will gain some weights after this break…

Have a break

2008-05-21T18:58:00.000+08:00

Went to beach recently.

"Hee Hee Hee''

It has been a while i did'nt visit the sea.

The last trip to the beach was last Raya.

"Muak, Love Yourself!"

Me and Rebecca standing next to baby pool.

Me and Rebecca at the beach.

@-@

Me and the "Leng Lui" - Aileen & Rebecca

My "Tam Chiak" face at Seafood Centre. Having my favourite dish - Crab.

It would be more fun if the crab is HUGE and i can use a stone to break the shell.

I'm going back to stone age..Hee hee.. hee.

Now, I guess Confuse Chua is going say : Lu Be Si Jing Bo Eng Meh? Ko U Eng Ki Holiday hor!

Bo Kutlat Thak Chek Boh!

Jenny : But Cc, I really can't wait till i go island in KK.

I promise i will kutlat kutlat Thak Chek later lah...

Hee hee hee...

Presentation

2008-05-17T08:48:00.001+08:00

Gosh, i got to give a presentation on Business Information System later.
It's part of my accessment for the subject.
Hey, many people are scare of public speaking rather then die you know.
Hope i wont talk like a ROBOT later...
Man.. to those leturers and speakers out there, i salute you!

Opps...

2008-05-09T18:50:00.000+08:00

Blog under construction...

Will be back soon.....

ChaBou & Double

2008-05-08T17:57:00.000+08:00

One fine day, ChaBou and Double went gai-gai at BULIBAT.

Scene 1:Wedding photo exhibition booth

Chabou : Laling ah, let’s have a look at the wedding photo.
Double : Okay…

Chabou : Eeee.. this one Jin Sui…
Salesgirl : This is our promotion package RM4digits for indoor and outdoor photos. Double : Wah! Why so expensive? RM4digits? Taking pictures for two person nia, can give 50% discount or not?
Salesgirl : Can. You can choose to take either picture of the bride or the bridegroom only.
Chabou & Double: …..

Here, the Blind Fortune Teller’s advice is :
It is not cheap to take wedding photo, take family photo better. Ask your grandmas, grandpas, uncles, aunties, TuaBo and SayEe, daughters and sons, cucu-cicit take pictures together-gather (bersama-sama). More worth mah...

Scene 2: Diamond Shop

Double : This one okay or not.
Chabou : Hmm.. Too small, can’t see the diamond.

Chabou : Hmm.. This one better.
Double : Let me see…. How much ah?
Salesman : After discount RM6digits.
Double : Wat? Why so expensive? It’s my three months salary oh!
Salesman : But sir, this is 3.5carat.
Double : Huh, berkarat already? Aiyah, sayang, like that don’t buy diamond lah.
I will buy you the crystal ring from next door; it won’t berkarat, cheaper and shinning like diamond also.
Salesman : ……..

Chabo : (Shake-head) Ladies, you say lah, should I marry him or not?

Another advice from the Blind Fortune Teller is :
Diamond ring and Crystal ring also ring. Loves don’t measure in carats…If you really like him, Stainless steel ring also can. Betul tak? And ladies now a days don’t just wait for man to buy diamond ring as they can always B.I.Y. (Buy it yourself), right?

Blind Fortune Teller: You got to belief what I say. Look into my eyes; I don’t tell lie one….

Raining...

2008-05-07T18:23:00.000+08:00

It's raining heavily out there this evening.

Wanted to go home to have a good rest but i can't.

Tonnes of work to be done and final exam i just around the corner...

Last night, i told my friend a jewish proverb : When You Must, You Can.

Tonight, i tell myself : While you can, quick quick finish your work and go home to sleep....

I really that.....ZZZzzzzzzz

Jenny Lee

2008-05-03T12:13:00.000+08:00

Hello there.

This is Jenny Lee here.

If you look at my face, I’m actually smiling most of the time.
The most important thing to makes my life go on is “Happy”
(not to mention $, air & water...)

But if you look closer to my eyes, you will find the “I wonder” sign in it.
There are so many things that I have yet to learn and understand.
It all takes time and I have to learn from experience.
The most importance is, learnt from the experience,

and DO NOT repeats the same mistake again.
So if I find any mistake in my post,

“Mohon Maaf Zahir and Batin” hor?

Bakulong

2008-05-03T11:38:00.000+08:00

Mum tough me what “Bakulong” is when I was young.
So, this is “Bakulong”.

During my childhood, I use to buy “Bakulong Jeruk” every time we went to Matang Family Park for leisure.

You can eat it with salt, with chili powder or just plain.

“Slurp..Air liur meleleh…”

Wait till a day I go site sighting with my colleague.

“Olivia, tu Bakulong sedap eh…”
“Apa Bakulong?”
“Tu tu…” I point to her the Bakulong Tree in the farm.
She burst out laughing non stop.
“Lu ah... itu Buah Kedondong…Bukan Bakulong…”

Finally I got the name of this fruit right at the age of 20.

Sebut betul betul … Buah Kedondong.

Mum plant a Buah Kedondong Tree at our backyard.
Surprisingly the tree is “Botak”- no leaves but a lot of fruits hanging at the end of small branches.

I was amazed that it can hold on to the heavy fruits.

Just this morning mum told me that there is a weird looking Buah Kedondong on the tree.

It got a NOSE.

Looks like one of the cartoon character – Pinochio.

“Pelik Bin Ajaib....” this is what Olivia and I use to say when we come across weird things.

I think if human beings have been cursed a spell like Pinocchio did, guess everyone will be having a very long long long nose, longer than elephant.

Don’t you dare to say you never LIE…..